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I was told rewards would fix it. Charts, stickers, promises of treats - all the classic advice. And for a while, I tried. But here’s the thing no one explained: you can’t reward a child out of fear. When their nervous system is in fight, flight, or freeze, no prize in the world makes the demand feel safer. Instead of motivation, rewards just added more shame. And instead of progress, the gap between us grew. What actually worked? Lowering pressure. Finding her interests. Creating space for contr

I was told rewards would fix it. Charts, stickers, promises of treats - all the classic advice. And for a while, I tried. But here’s the thing no one explained: you can’t reward a child out of fear. When their nervous system is in fight, flight, or freeze, no prize in the world makes the demand feel safer. Instead of motivation, rewards just added more shame. And instead of progress, the gap between us grew. What actually worked? Lowering pressure. Finding her interests. Creating space for contr

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Suggestions for rewards we can use? Are you looking to use it as a reward chart? They can work in schools because those aren’t personal, but I don’t recommend using them at home. A reward chart sends this message to a child … You're normally rotten, but if you happen to be good, you'll get a reward. You see you are rewarding just for baseline behavior. I don't do that at all. That's my baseline expectation, is that you be respectful and polite. Now a behavior board says to a child, you're normal

Suggestions for rewards we can use? Are you looking to use it as a reward chart? They can work in schools because those aren’t personal, but I don’t recommend using them at home. A reward chart sends this message to a child … You're normally rotten, but if you happen to be good, you'll get a reward. You see you are rewarding just for baseline behavior. I don't do that at all. That's my baseline expectation, is that you be respectful and polite. Now a behavior board says to a child, you're normal

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parenting: A Journey of Challenges and Rewards! | Alexa PenaVega

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Parents can offer rewards to children for completing work. rewards can increase motivation and boost self-esteem for tasks that are hard or unpleasant. Benefits of RewardsIncreases Motivation:Rewards can motivate a child to complete tasks they might otherwise avoid, especially if the task is difficult or unpleasant. Boosts Self-Esteem:When a child's effort is acknowledged and rewarded, they feel their work is valued, which helps them develop a positive self-image. Positive Interaction:Rewards pr

Parents can offer rewards to children for completing work. rewards can increase motivation and boost self-esteem for tasks that are hard or unpleasant. Benefits of RewardsIncreases Motivation:Rewards can motivate a child to complete tasks they might otherwise avoid, especially if the task is difficult or unpleasant. Boosts Self-Esteem:When a child's effort is acknowledged and rewarded, they feel their work is valued, which helps them develop a positive self-image. Positive Interaction:Rewards pr

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Place2Be: Parenting Smart: Using praise and reward with children

Place2Be: Parenting Smart: Using praise and reward with children

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Rewards and punishments can change behavior… for a little while. But as Dr. Ross Greene reminds us, that doesn’t fix the why behind the behavior. When a child is acting out, it’s a signal—like a fever. It tells us they’re struggling to meet expectations. If we focus on punishment or rewards, we miss the opportunity to solve the real problem. His Collaborative & Proactive Solutions Masterclass helps us shift from controlling behavior to understanding it. Follow us and @livesinthebalance for more

Rewards and punishments can change behavior… for a little while. But as Dr. Ross Greene reminds us, that doesn’t fix the why behind the behavior. When a child is acting out, it’s a signal—like a fever. It tells us they’re struggling to meet expectations. If we focus on punishment or rewards, we miss the opportunity to solve the real problem. His Collaborative & Proactive Solutions Masterclass helps us shift from controlling behavior to understanding it. Follow us and @livesinthebalance for more

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Today I want to talk about why using rewards and consequences with your child can be a big mistake and what to do instead! 😄#parenting #parentingtips #toddlermom | Thriving Minds Montessori

Today I want to talk about why using rewards and consequences with your child can be a big mistake and what to do instead! 😄#parenting #parentingtips #toddlermom | Thriving Minds Montessori

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Whether or not parents should give rewards to kids for their performance in sports is one of the more hot button questions in the youth sports world. It’d be easy to give a hot take one way or the other, but the truth is the answer is very kid dependent, age dependent, and sport dependent. Rewards should never be a long term or primary motivator, but they have their place when we are encouraging our kids along their sports journey. I dive into this even deeper in the full episode with @elitement

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Life’s most meaningful rewards are not always the grand achievements. They are found in the genuine, heartfelt moments just like this. 🥹💗 Credits to: @dimeclub.app -------------------------------------------------------------- Hey, I’m Sean, and I help parents with challenging kids and painful problems. Through my podcast and my VIP Membership, I give parents like you the tools, the support, and the specific solutions you need to solve painful behaviors and patterns. I have a powerful and life

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Mindful Parenting Advice | Nurturing Families on Instagram: "Follow @positiveparentingsociety for more parenting insights ✨ Here’s the truth most parents don’t hear: ADHD kids aren’t “unmotivated” - they’re externally motivated. Their brain doesn’t create internal drive the way other kids’ brains do. So expecting them to “just do it because they should” sets everyone up to fail Dr. Russell Barkley puts it simply: If there’s no immediate win for the ADHD brain… it’s not happening That’s why rewar

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